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Have You Lost Passion for Your Business?

Sunday, February 5th, 2012

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, how passionate are you about your business?   Has it become a “bad marriage?”  Is there hope of rekindling the passion you once had when you first started your business?

Almost daily, I hear from business owners who aren’t sure whether or not to “cut their losses” and run or hang in there for the long haul.  Sound familiar?

I liken it to the old adage that the grass is always greener on the other side.  To that, I always like to respond that yes, the grass is sometimes greener on the other side, but it still needs mowing.  In other words, it is still going to take maintenance to make it work.  All relationships including the one between you and your business need maintenance.

Here are the reasons, I believe, that we lose passion for our businesses.  I will elaborate on each one separately:

  • You do not charge enough for your services.
  • You do not reach out to the business community (online or offline).
  • You do not serve the clients that value your services.
  • You do not serve the correct industry or target market.
  • You do not offer skills or services that you enjoy.
  • You do not manage your time until you are overwhelmed.
  • You do not believe that you are doing as well as everyone else.

You do not charge enough for our services. While you may be passionate about you business after a while, you are going to get burnt out working too many hours to make enough to live on.  Also, when you do not charge enough, you devalue ourselves and our individual talents and gifts.  When you get to the point that you can no longer pay our bills, you begin to lose hope and no longer want to continue.  Your self-esteem will be at an all-time low.

You know the old saying that money cannot buy love.  True, but it can certainly put you in a good bargaining position.  So get into a good bargaining position, and start charging more.

You do not reach out to the business community (online or offline). Barbara Sher, bestselling author and coach, likes to say that isolation is the killer of dreams.  When feeling alone or isolated, are you “connecting” with your networks about a business issue?  Are you taking advantage of the camaraderie there?

Part of business is connecting and serving.  There are no “lone ranger” corporations or solo-practices either.

You do not serve the clients that value your services. This is a big one.  If a client does not want to pay for your services or place a value on what you offer, find a client who does.  Remember the childhood story about the “ugly duckling” that was really a swan?  Well, you are a swan, and those that don’t value that need to retreat to a different lake or different scenery.

You do not serve the correct industry or target market. This is a huge mistake.  So many times, it’s easier to want to reach the industry with the most money.  However, sometimes with big money comes big headaches.  This may not be a fit for you.  Find ways to serve the market or at least part of the market that you are passionate about.  They will also be blessed and better served by your offers even if you have to serve them in larger numbers (teleseminars and teleconferences).

You do not offer skills and services that you enjoy. Like a new perfume on a romantic night, you can get excited again.  You can get passionate again.  Find a new skill to add to your skills offered list and get excited.  Find new ways to serve the target market, which most excites you.

You do not honor you time until you are overwhelmed. You try to do too much in too short of a period of time.  Just like bills, kids, careers, and commitments take their toll on a marriage – you need a get away.  Why not have a “date night” with your business?  Sign up for a seminar, workshop or Chamber of Commerce event.  Get out of your home office and off of your computer!  Then back refreshed and better organize your day!

You do not believe that you are doing as well as everyone else. Before you begin entertaining an “affair” outside of your business or with another business idea, ask why are those other businesses thriving?  Do they market regularly, do they have a fan page on Facebook, do they regularly post articles online?  Find out what keeps the “romance” burning for their business.

I think you’ll find that once again, you can get passionate about your business.  Once again, find a reason to get out of bed.  Despite what Forrest Gump said about life being like a box of chocolates, and you’ll never know what you’ll get.  You’ll be just as passionate about the chocolate covered caramels as you are about the chocolate covered raspberry creams.  Why?  Because you chose them with a passion.  Your business passion.  You are once more in control.

There is only one you, so why not BE you and offer your own “bouquet” of authenticity to your clients.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

3 Challenges for the Serious Business Owner in 2012

Thursday, January 5th, 2012

Happy New Year!  Happy 2012!

As the two faces of the Roman god, Janus, look both to the future with one face and to the past with the other face—let us do the same.  My challenge to your business is to have three things that you leave behind and three things that you do to plan your business success.

Things to leave behind are projects or work that you are not passionate about.  There are just too many other opportunities to find work that is a “fit” for you.  You rob the world of your unique talents and skills when you chose the wrong work.  If you struggle with procrastination, this is probably why.

Another item to leave behind are clients that drain your energy and do not respect you or do not pay well.  Time to get your energy back and your wealth back too.

Lastly, stop wallowing in mistakes and failures.  Use them to learn what NOT to do next time or what to do differently.

Now for the things that you need to “take with you” in 2012 are setting realistic goals for your business, re-evaluating last year’s marketing plans, and striving for a better work/life balance.

What are realistic goals?  They are the ones which you have to stretch a little to reach, but they are reachable and measurable.  They can be broken down into smaller goals.  Most of us know deep down what is realistic and not realistic.

Also, don’t forget to see where you are in your business’ marketing.  The only time you ever stop marketing is when you don’t want any more clients.  So, look at what worked and what didn’t work.

And finally, the one all of us freelancer, self-employed types struggle with is work/life balance.  Have at least one day off a week.  Get away from your computer!  You’ll be amazed at how good and refreshed you will feel.

Again, Happy New Year!

Are there other things you’d like to leave behind in 2012?  Are there other things you’d like to achieve in 2010?

You know a good VA can always help you achieve those realistic goals, marketing goals, and perfect work/life balance.  Consider adding one to your success equation for 2012.  We at this blog and GBS Virtual Office Solutions stand ready to help.

How ThetaHealing® Can Help You Grow Your Business

Wednesday, February 2nd, 2011

Most people I work with want to increase their income, grow their business or get a new job. Who can blame them? Perhaps you have one of these dreams too. After all, you can never have too much money. Or too many clients. Right?

Like others, are you wondering how to make this happen for you? Reading a shelf-full of “How To” books aren’t working. Neither is working yourself to exhaustion or “wishing” something would miraculously change. What may surprise you is that your blocks to success are something you can’t see. Or change on your own.

That “something” is your beliefs and programs about yourself and life. About money. About success. 

Your beliefs and programs are embedded inside you on a cellular level. They may be conscious or unconscious. Usually a combination of both. Two places your beliefs come from are:

1) The environment you grew up in (core) and

2) Passed on from generation to generation (genetic) 

Or you may have the program that you must work hard for everything, nothing comes easy.

A common belief is along the line of “I am not worthy” or “I am a stupid failure”. You might not even realize you harbor these beliefs. They may have started in third grade when you flunked a spelling test and rude classmate made fun of you. These feelings and beliefs of being a stupid failure stay with you and quietly destroys your success —  until you heal.

Your destructive beliefs can express themselves in many forms.  A few common ways is to:

1) Keep a client you really don’t like because you fear losing the money they bring in

2) Staying at a job you hate but feel as if you have no choice especially in this economy

3) Procrastination

4) Promoting your business feels like a struggle — as if something is holding you back

Getting rid of blocks to success is easy when you use ThetaHealing®. This is a technique where you heal limiting beliefs and programs using your energy as well as the energy of the Universe. Some people call this higher energy Source Energy, God, Creator or All That Is. 

When you open yourself up to ThetaHealing, you open up a whole new world of possibilities. That’s because when you change the way you think and process life, you change the outcome.

With ThetaHealing®, you can quickly change destructive beliefs and programs and replace them with healthy, abundant ones. Theta Healing not only helps you heal on the core and genetic level, you also heal on the history level as well as the soul level. Because of healing on these four key levels, changes happen fast. I witness this miracle every time I have a ThetaHealing® session with someone.

What’s really exciting is that energy healing sessions are conducted over the phone so it doesn’t matter where you live. Most sessions last an hour at a time. How many sessions you need depend on how many layers of healing you need to uncover your blocks.

Healing your blocks to abundance is a gift to yourself that will permanently enhance your life and your business.

 Wendy Baldwin is a certified ThetaHealing®practitioner. She helps people in different parts of the world heal their lives. You can read more about Wendy and ThetaHealing at www.alignwithjoy.com.

Success is the Best Revenge

Sunday, October 4th, 2009

This was a great read from a woman who has had to make her own success by NOT banking or dovetailing on the success of her famous father. In her book, Jokes My Father Never Taught Me, Rain Pryor, decided to create her own style of comedy despite the problems she encountered.

For years, she struggled with rejection. No one “got” her comedy—it was a different genre than what was currently being performed. It was also different from her famous father’s brand of comedy. However, despite these setbacks, she went on to create her own unique style—her own USP (Unique Selling Position).

Two of my favorite quotes from the book are:

“Success is the best revenge; it’s the ultimate ha-ha.”

“I can sit around and wait for someone to put me in a box. Or I can create something and say, ‘This is what I do.’ ”

Rain Pryor
Daughter of Richard Pryor
Comic, Actress, and Singer

So for those of you who are struggling in your own business and your own uniqueness, just remember these two quotes.
 

3 Traits of a Successful Entrepreneur

Thursday, September 24th, 2009

Someone once said, “A selective memory is the road to sanity for long-term parenting.”

While all of us who are parents can definitely relate to that this, I think that some of us entrepreneurs can also relate to this. In their book, Good Luck: Create the Conditions for Success in Life & Business, both Alex Rovira and Fernando Trias de Bes explain three characteristics which separate successful entrepreneurs from unsuccessful entrepreneurs. For more information, the book is now on Amazon.

The three principles are:

1) Responsibility. Business owners who feel that they have had good luck also feel responsible for their own actions. When things go wrong or the outcome of any given situation is other than intended, they never blame others or the current circumstances. They look inwardly and ask, “What have I done for this to occur?” Then they act accordingly and solve the problem.

2) Learning from Mistakes. Creators of “good luck” don’t see a mistake as a failure. Instead, a mistake is an opportunity for learning. Thomas Edison is the classic example. More than 1,000 attempts to invent the first long-lasting electric light bulb led to bulbs that only stayed lit for a few minutes.

When asked if he felt like a failure, Edison answered, “Not at all. Now, I definitely know more than a thousand ways how NOT to make a light bulb.”

Sure enough, just a few days later, he turned his inspiration into a practical concept. Originally, the very first light bulb was invented by Sir Joseph Wilson Swan, who demonstrated the theoretical concept but gave up trying to develop a practical application after only three attempts. Instead, Edison made his own good luck by designing a working light bulb.

3. Perseverance. Creators of good luck never give up or postpone. When a problem or situation arises, they act immediately to solve it without delay. These business people don’t carry a list of “to-do list” in their brain. Instead, they resolve problems and situations as quickly as possible. This enables their energy to be fully focused on their work and avoid distractions, which only generate inefficiency.

Do you have selective memory when it comes to your entrepreneurial mistakes? Do you think that it just may be time to develop one?

Want to Succeed as an Entrepreneur?

Sunday, September 16th, 2007

Ten Survival Strategies for Entrepreneurs
 
by Bill Lampton, Ph.D.

Seven years ago, I left the administrative career I had built for 23 years, and started my own business. Why? For some of the same reasons that attract other pioneers.

You want to be your own boss.

You want to unleash your creativity, which your current job stifles. You expect to double or triple your income. You are eager to implement your lifelong fantasy. You lost a previous job, and you don’t want to face being downsized again.

Yet, whether you have taken that step or merely intend to, you’re afraid. You know former business colleagues whose new businesses failed.

Fear no more. I offer these guidelines for success.

One: Involve Your Family. Entrepreneurship will bring family changes, for sure. Your home office takes away the guest bedroom, and startup expenses strain the family budget.

From the outset, let every family member know what you are doing, why, and how it will impact them. Then listen. Solicit, and respond to their advice. Welcome their objectivity, which you’re lacking in your euphoria.

Talk candidly about these changes before they happen, and you’ll gain valuable teammates.


Two: Network, and Keep On Networking. In Dig Your Well Before You’re Thirsty, Harvey Mackay wrote: “If I had to name the single characteristic shared by all the truly successful people I’ve met over a lifetime, I’d say it is the ability to create and nurture a network of contacts.”

Mistakenly, during the first six months, I tried going it alone. The results were dismal.

Then I sought advisers, who helped me immensely, giving constructive feedback about my web site, company name, motto, logo—practically every significant step. I still meet monthly with a group of my peers. We share marketing strategies, and even a few leads.

I encourage you to join civic groups, your professional associations (mine is the National Speakers Association), and start your own informal group.

Three: Master the Clock and the Calendar. Time will become your most valuable commodity. Treasure it, protect it, use it wisely. Decline politely when your Thursday afternoon golf buddy calls on a warm, sunny day.

Use time-savers like these:

Organize your work area, so you can find information quickly Rely on a contact management program, such as ACT, to keep track of prospects/clients. Start each day with a to-do list, arranged in priority order Limit the length of phone calls and meal breaks. Outsource work that others will perform well at a reasonable price.

Four: Get Physical. To endure your long work hours, you must remain in top physical shape. Exercise regularly, eat nutritious foods, reserve adequate sleep time, take short stretch breaks, and schedule your annual physician’s exam. I start each day with a one-hour workout at a fitness center. Rather than tiring me, the session ignites me.


Establish your own health-supporting routines. Stick with them five or six days a week, and you will enjoy feeling better, thinking more clearly, and having more energy.

Five: Nurture Your Spiritual and Emotional Needs. Remember to nourish the needs that go beyond the physical realm. Daily, you will need exceptional motivation, reinforcement, re-dedication, resilience, and sheer courage. Many successful entrepreneurs rely on sources not seen and touched.

For me, memorizing and repeating inspirational passages boosts my morale. Select whatever method brings you inspiration—meditation, reading, attending religious services, walking down a nature trail, or others.

Six: Get Technical. Most entrepreneurs don’t start out with administrative assistants. We are SOHOs—single owners, home offices. Then who does the correspondence, records, research, and filing? You do.

So if you are technologically impaired, or you’re somewhat competent but lack proficiency in programs like PowerPoint and Desktop Publisher, enroll in a nearby computer course. Fortunately, even small community colleges offer them as noncredit evening courses, modestly priced.

Seven: Become—and Remain—an Expert. Will prospects return your calls? Will appointments turn into contracts? They will when you demonstrate that you have mastered your field.

Expertise doesn’t happen by accident. Successful entrepreneurs read voraciously, attend conferences, interview leading authorities, explore their topic on the Internet, pursue advanced degrees, earn special accreditation.

And we don’t stop learning. “Continuing education” is a redundant phrase. To be educated means that we keep learning the latest advancements in our profession.


Eight: Hire a Coach. Tiger Woods, possibly the greatest golfer ever, wasn’t reluctant about hiring a coach. Presidents, actors, and industry leaders rely on coaches.

Almost two years ago, I hired a coach to improve my marketing efforts. We worked together for three intensive months. With his help, I revolutionized the way I seek business. I consider his fee one of my wisest professional investments.

Nine: Spend Wisely. Friends told me the writer’s conference in Maui was one I must attend. I considered the cost, and went to a regional conference instead, where I learned plenty and kept my creditors happy.

Spending wisely becomes especially essential when we understand that an entrepreneur’s income, typically, is cyclical. We can’t let a highly lucrative month or quarter lull us into lavish life styles. Soon we’ll face months with less income—possibly even no income. Save cash reserves for those non-revenue periods.

Ten: Reject Rejection. Yes, turndowns will happen, when you just knew your proposal was powerful, and your presentation flawless. How could they choose someone else? In the words of Thomas Paine, “These are the times that try men’s souls.” The more you are rejected, the more you question your ability. Your confidence drops.

I suggest that you reject rejection. Realize that losing a contract doesn’t mean that you or your work are inferior. Somehow, there wasn’t a fit between you and the organization. Really, the company paid you a high compliment by selecting you for an on-site interview. That alone affirmed your credentials, programs, and product.

Think of the rejection as a rehearsal for your next potential client. Learn what you can from it, then go find someone who embraces the value your services will bring.

Bill Lampton, Ph.D., helps organizations achieve CPR—Cooperation, Productivity, Renewal of Mission. He wrote The Complete Communicator: Change Your Communication, Change Your Life! Contact him at drbill@BillLampton.com and visit http://www.billlampton.com/.

Still Don’t Know What You Want To Be

Wednesday, September 5th, 2007

 

Those “Crazy” Business Ideas Often Turn Out to Be the Best
By Valerie Young
 
When Bob Page told his friends and family he wanted to quit his auditing job to start his own business, they were less than encouraging to him. Well, that’s actually an understatement. Basically what they told him was he was crazy.
 
Fortunately he didn’t listen. Instead he figured that if he could devote time to doing what he loved, he could make money – even if it was less than what he was earning at a CPA. Bob was right on the first count. When you love what you do, it’s hard not to make money. What Bob didn’t realize at the time was that his “crazy” idea would wind up making him more money than he’d ever dreamed of.
 
You see, today Bob’s company, Replacements Ltd. is the world’s largest supplier of discontinued china, glassware, flatware, and collectibles. It all started when Bob bought a part interest in a Greensboro, North Carolina antique store. A customer asked if he could find some missing pieces for her china set. He did.
 
And then an interesting thing started to happen. According to his website, “as friends learned of his interest in china and crystal, they asked him to be on the lookout for particular dinnerware patterns they needed as well as pieces they had lost or broken. Bob quickly found himself devoting more and more time to his hobby, often staying up until the early morning hours to fill orders. Bob stored the china and crystal in his attic, while his bedroom served as his office.”
 
When the Small Business Administration (SBA) refused him a loan saying his idea would never work, Bob convinced the owner of a commercial building to rent him retail space. He got the word out by placing small ads in magazines. In his first year he grossed more than $150,000 in sales. And in 2002, sales exceeded $69 million… definitely more than he’d made in his auditing job. If you’re looking to either buy or sell china, flatware, etc. or just want to check out the result of one man’s crazy idea go to http://www.replacements.com/
 
So much for the wisdom of friends, family, and the even the experts at the SBA. Speaking of finding support for changing course, try to imagine what Katie Wainwright’s family and friends had to say when she told them she wanted to pick up dog poop for a living.
 
You read right. Last year Katie started Doggy Doody Disposal in Agawam, Massachusetts. The company provides “doody scooping” or bagged doody removal for clients in western Massachusetts and northern Connecticut. In addition to residential clients, they also service commercial property owners, pet related businesses, golf courses, parks, realtors and more. The company credo is “We do doody so you won’t have to.”
 
These are just a couple of the countless other “crazy” ideas that have proved the nay sayers wrong and helped catapult the idea maker out of a job they hate into a life they love. The next time you get a crazy idea for a small business do two things. One, get a notebook and label it Crazy Business Ideas. In one section, collect examples of crazy idea that have worked. In another, keep a running list of your own crazy money making ideas.
 
Next, seek out people who will support your idea. Unless you come from a family of entrepreneurs, chances your supporters aren’t in your family or immediate circle of friends. Where will you find them? You don’t have to own a business to join an organization inhabited by entrepreneurs.
 
Although I have zero interest in inventing a product, I joined a local inventors group because I love the energy of being around can-do, make it happen people. Similarly, you don’t have to be a business owner to join your local Chamber of Commerce. Many communities also have some sort of association of small business owners that meet on monthly basis.
 
As the great actor Katherine Hepburn once said, “Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting.” Some of the most interesting means of support begin as a crazy idea. The key is to keep coming up with them, then when you find one you love, recognize that the only sane response is to go for it.
 
 

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About the Author
“Off the beaten career path” consultant, Valerie Young, abandoned her corporate cubicle to become the Dreamer in Residence at http://changingcourse.com/, offering free resources to help you discover your life mission and live it. Her career change tips have been cited The Wall Street Journal, USA Today Weekend, Redbook, Entrepreneur’s Business Start Ups, and on-line at MSN, CareerBuilder, and iVillage.com. An expert on the Impostor Syndrome, she’s presented her How to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone Seems to Think You Are program to thousands of people.
 
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Happy Birthday, Gemstone!

Friday, March 30th, 2007

Happy Gemstone Business Solutions! You’ll be one year old on April 4. Thank all of you for your patronage.

 

 


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